Saturday, December 16, 2006

Everyone changes.




Sometimes it is impossible for anyone not to change. It seems tt in life, change is inevitable. To me, there are 3 main reasons why people change.




Firstly, influence by peers. When u are interacting with your friends everyday, some of their characters maybe actually be found in u. N some of your characters can also be found in them.




Secondly, due to the environment or surrounding. You change to fit in to the environment. To blend in with everyone.




Thirdly, to adapt to environment. You change cos u need to adapt in an unfamiliar environment.




So, pple change and there maybe more than these 3 reasons. So when someone change i think it takes alot of courage for another person to accept that change. If changing n be more positive in life, i think it is a good change and your fren instead of exclaiming and get upset over the change shld be happy for u.




Nevermind not accepting the change, to me, the worse a fren can go iis not to even allow u to change. If for the worse, maybe u shld try n stop e change for occuring. But if for the better, why not?




By doing tt you are very selfish. Not only being selfish u hinder the development of one. You trap the poor soul into the cage, the cage where shld have been opened.




So open your arms widely to changes you fren are having. Have an open-mind.